Create accountLogin

Recent searches

No recent searches

Search options

Only available when logged in.
en.osm.town is one of the many independent Mastodon servers you can use to participate in the fediverse.
An independent, community of OpenStreetMap people on the Fediverse/Mastodon. Funding graciously provided by the OpenStreetMap Foundation.

Administered by:

Server stats:

259
active users

en.osm.town: AboutProfiles directoryPrivacy policy

Mastodon: AboutGet the appKeyboard shortcutsView source codev4.3.8

#ds

0 posts0 participants0 posts today
Public
aby in a conclave

Honestly, as far as kinksters go.. Swingers have to be some of the most whingey little babies I've ever met.

I'm constantly getting messages from swingers complaining that there are no events for them to attend, and when I point out that there are monthly munches they are welcome to attend they complain that it's a kink munch.

Dude, it's Bathurst - the selection pool is small.

Firstly, swinging is a kink. Secondly, if you're not interested in going to the event and you're not bothered to start your own, don't message a complete stranger and about something not being tailor made for you and your dick.

This is exactly why I stopped organising.

#kink#bdsm#Ds
Public
aby in a conclave

I often get messaged on Fetlife by people I don't know asking to meet up with them to play.

I don't tend to do this anymore because of covid, so I'll simply respond "sorry, I don't meet up with strangers".

Women and queers tend to message back with something akin to "I totally understand, have a great week!"

Men almost always message back asking how to "not be a stranger", or they start arguing with me that they aren't a stranger because we're chatting/I know their name/we both live in Bathurst etc..

But it's like... why are you, a grown adult, unsure how to not be a stranger to someone? Like is the concept of learning about and becoming friends with another person that much of an alien idea to you?

Also, I'm not a vending machine you pay friendship into until I fuck you - and I get the irony of this, seeing as I often fuck my friends.

#fetlife#dating#kink
Public
aby in a conclave

It's interesting how it's always the men with the "LordMasterDivineDomlyGod" names who make declarations of how sadism/masochism works for everyone*, and when you question what they've said they decide you're the one being stubborn and ignorant?

Like, my guy.. my little guy, it's ok that other people experience things in different ways to you. It's really ok.

#kink #bdsm #Ds #Dominant #submissive #fetlife

_____
* brought to you by the ever pervasive bullshit idea that sadists are naturally dominant and masochists are naturally submissive, because sadism is active and dynamic, but masochism is passive and receptive.

ExploreLive feeds
About